For those who are single. I’m not single, but I used to be a few years ago. I will soon wrote an article on this topic myself, but in the meantime here is something interesting to read:
I get asked for relationship advice a lot. I guess that’s par for the course, as my husband and I were the first couple in our group to get engaged, move in together, and get married.
Interestingly, I also get asked a lot for dating and relationship advice by other spoonies. I guess that makes sense, too, since I managed to snag my adorable husband while being blatantly, unhideably sick.
It didn’t just happen, though. It took a lot of work and self confidence to get to the point where I was able to date as a sick person. One mistake I had made in earlier relationships, before a virus made my illnesses unable to be disguised, was not disclosing my illness at the beginning of the relationship.
I know, you’re thinking, “but if I tell them I’m sick, it will scare them off!” But really, if it does, is…
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